Visit from OMA!

One of my favorite people came for a visit! Joshua's mom wanted to be able to spend time with her grandson and the visit was absolutely GREAT! One of Caden's favorite things to do with grandma (besides being held) was going on walks. Caden just melted in her arms as she cuddled and loved him to pieces.

Thank you Mom (Oma) for loving us all.

Where does time go?

No, I'm not a bad mother, just a really busy momma trying to adjust and trying to do too many things at once. By request and because I wanted to, here is a picture of my son...hopefully there will be more to come when I get my head straight and upload them to my blog.

Our son Caden....
* Starting at five weeks he has been amazing at holding his head up without a problem, except after eating then he just becomes too relax to try.
* He has just began to smile and laugh...which just melts mommy and daddy's heart, especially in the morning.
* Only wakes up once during the night, and sometimes not at all but is SURE hungry when he wakes up.
* Doesn't like going poop, but we are working through it and it doesn't seem as uncomfortable as it has been.
* Loves to be alert and look around at everything, most of the time he is awake and alert more than asleep.
* Loves to be read to and sang to
* Loves to put his face on his mom and dad's neck for comfort.

The birth of our Son, Part I.

Many people have asked me about our adoption story and I hesitate in sharing our full story because of the sacredness of it all. My fear is that many wouldn't understand the spirituality of it the entire experience, and that I won't give enough justice to the birth of our son. With that in mind I will share just a little of what happen......

Our son was born on December 19, 2007 at 9:24. We got a call that morning at about 3 am from the social worker and literally shoved everything in the car and took off. I can honestly say that the only items organized and well packed were the things that we were bringing for Caden (which we had packed weeks, if not months, before). Through the 11 hour drive we got a call regularly from Alison's father and brother, who updated us every step of the way on everything that was going on (THANK YOU!!). At first we thought we would make the birth, since the doctor said that Alison would deliver naturally and it would happen around 3 pm. But complications with Caden wanting to just come out led to a c-section. We were told by Alison's family that during the entire process, she continuously asked for us and wanted to make sure that we were called. I can't imagine how much pain she was in and the thought that we were in her thoughts during the delivery will always mean so much to us.

No, we didn't arrive for the birth, but we were included as much as it was possible during our drive.....Johnson, Alison's brother, photo messaged us pictures of Caden and picture of Alison. Our son was born and Josh and I couldn't wait to get there to see him. This was probably one of the longest 11 hour drives that we have EVER taken.

But it was worth it to see this beautiful face....even unhappy he is beautiful!

The Cousins!

Aren't they the cutest boys you've ever seen?!?!?

We would like to announce the birth of our son, Caden Daniel. Born December 19, 2007 weighing 7lbs 9 oz.

Do you see what I don't see?!?!?!?

So after several coments from my family telling me that I look pregnant, or that I have a big belly (thanks mom!!) I asked Josh to take a picture of me, because I really don't see that there is a bump or some sign that tells people "Heidi is pregnant." Do you see anything?



I am happily now 11 weeks pregnant, and really according to the many internet sights that I read I am not going to show for a few more weeks. But I am not going to fit my clothes (yeah, tell me about it!) and I will feel bloated, BOTH extremely correct.



After waiting so long to be pregnant, I am happy to say that I LOVE BEING PREGNANT, "all day sickness" and all!

Bubble bath anyone?

Today a coworker, who is also a good friend, came in exhausted from staying up with her little girl last night. Late at night (okay it was at 10 pm, but for my friend it felt like 1 am), she came in to her living room and noticed that there was something wrong with the fish tank, according to her she didn't have her glasses on and was looking at a distance at the fish tank. She noticed white stuff, coming out of the fish tank and as she got closer she passed her daughter's room and noticed that her daughter's bottle of body wash was on the bed empty (new bottle!!). But she kept going and got closer to the fish tank to realize that "hmmmm, this tank smells good". Sure enough her daughter was trying to clean the fish and the tank with her body wash...fish were trying to survive at the bottom of the tank and some had already died and were on top of bubbles, on the top of the fish tank.
As my friend told me this story, as a counselor I had my understanding comments of how frustrating that was for her...then I couldn't help but laugh and she joined right in and stated, "last night it wasn't funny but today I see the humor".........

I can't wait to be a mommy!!!